The Mommy Diaries, A Letter To My Pre-Teen Daughter

The Mommy Diaries, A Letter To My Pre-Teen Daughter

It didn’t seem that long ago that I was right there in her Converses, thinking that life would surely end if “that guy” didn’t like me back, or if I didn’t make the cheerleading squad. It’s amazing that when you are a pre-teen, embarking on those formidable years that I found out later m

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A Hidden Cause of Obesity and Reversing Antidepressant Weight Gain

A Hidden Cause of Obesity and Reversing Antidepressant Weight Gain

I know it does no good to shout at a TV screen but I do it anyway. Watching advertisements for upcoming specials on "obesity in America" or "best diet tips" or "the best way to fight weight gain" provokes my on-going one-sided argument.  When I see doctors such as Dr. Oz or Dr. Gupta talk about

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Sick Humor:

Sick Humor: “It’s Always Darkest Before The Dawn”…..And Other Useless Crap.

Albert Einstein was quoted as saying “Two things are infinite; the universe and human stupidity…and I’m not sure about the universe.”  Well, Mr. Einstein, while I think your hairstylist apparently went to the Cosmo Kramer School of Coif Design, you may have hit the nail on the proverbial he

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Product Review: Dropps: Pre-measured Dissolving Laundry Detergent Packets

Product Review: Dropps: Pre-measured Dissolving Laundry Detergent Packets

All you need is a DROPP!! A Dissolvable, Ready-to-use, Organic, Premeasured Packet. Each DROPP contains enough concentrated detergent to gently clean an entire load of heavily soiled laundry. The pouch dissolves completely in the washer, releasing great cleaning power. I really like these conve

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Book Review: The Velveteen Principles, A Guide To Becoming Real

Book Review: The Velveteen Principles, A Guide To Becoming Real

By: Toni Raiten-D'Antonio When I was in college, way back in the late 60s, a popular book being passed around was The Velveteen Rabbit. Yes, it is a children's book and yes, I said I was in college. Deep within this simple, classic story of a well loved stuffed rabbit is hidden many basic life t

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Blankets, Pillows, and Bedding, Oh My!

Blankets, Pillows, and Bedding, Oh My!

"Good Night, Sleep Right" with ButYouDontLookSick.com Product Reviews: Bedding Edition Don’t you just love a cozy blanket? No wonder why so many babies and kid’s love their “blankies”. As adults I think we could all use to have something warm, and soft to cuddle with at night. A blan

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When Your Mother Has Lupus: A Daughter’s Perspective

When Your Mother Has Lupus: A Daughter’s Perspective

Being a daughter of a Lupus patient is a unique way to grow up.  I do not have the disease myself, but experienced many of its effects through my mother.  She was diagnosed when I was a year old, and lived with Lupus until last June when she passed away.  I was twenty-two years old when she died,

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Confessions of an Unapologetic High-Maintenance

Confessions of an Unapologetic High-Maintenance “Spoonie”

I am unapologetically, standing proudly on my perfectly pedicured toes proclaiming that I am high maintenance. Where exactly is it written that just because I have Lupus, I have to accept the life of a bag lady? Over and over I hear the same thing from doctors, friends, strangers, facebook friends,

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Human Connections: Connect with Others to Connect with Yourself

Human Connections: Connect with Others to Connect with Yourself

In order to lead a healthy, well balanced life, it is important to have some special people in your life. This makes you feel connected, loved, cared for and valued. We all need human connections to thrive and also to be the best we can be in this world. There are many qualities that make up a good

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Handicap Parking and My Invisible Illness

Handicap Parking and My Invisible Illness

I have an invisible illness. To look at me you would see a short, fat, middle-aged grandmother. Sometimes I walk with a cane, but most of the times I don’t need it. I have a handicapped parking tag hanging on the mirror of my car. I park in handicapped spots. However, I get nasty looks when I get

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